Breakout Session for Iron Sharpens Iron Conference in Clearwater FL. In the Battle for Sexual Purity, one of the Biblical strategies for combatting sexual lust is, "Drink water from your own cistern." The best defense for married guys is a great offense. But this strategy is hindered by a huge misconnect between husbands and wives over intimacy. 83% of wives say their husband doesn't understand their need for emotional intimacy and 83% of husbands say their wives don't understand the need for sexual intimacy. This seminar helps men understand their wive's need for emotional connection and explain to their wives their need for sexual connection.